Chad Hallberg mentions 2 things he likes about Google Buzz… I only like one thing so far and it’s related to one of his points. I REALLY like that I’m now following a bunch more folks in Google Reader. I’m finding a constant stream of great posts that I never would have uncovered. I’m sure someone also tweeted many of these posts, but with all the noise on Twitter, I’m finding the “people you follow” to be the best way to find interesting and eclectic posts from around the web.
Tagged: friends RSS
Dustin
Are your Facebook friends hiding from you?
Turns out the latest update to the Facebook news feeds sets a bunch of feeds that you may want to follow to “hidden” so that they don’t show up in your main feed. This includes both “friends” and “public profiles”, so it’s probably worth checking to see if you have some things hidden that I did not mean to!
How to check?
This is not self-evident, at least it wasn’t for me. The trick is that you first have to hide a news item, and then Facebook will (briefly) give you a link to edit your hidden items (i.e. “show hidden friends”):

This will open up a menu similar to this one where you can unhide (or “add to newsfeed”):

Personally, I was not only surprised at the number of “pages” or public profiles that were hidden, but also at just how many people were hidden in my menu. I think the old messaging of “show fewer updates” turned into “hidden” in the new layout.
And if you’re looking for more background on Facebook, maybe you should ask yourself, Why bother with Facebook Pages?
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Laura
I figured out how to “Show Hidden Friends” (and I feel like a bit of an idiot that it took me this long): at the bottom of the news feed, in the box that you click for “Older Posts” there is a link that says “See Hidden Friends” – and ALLEGEDLY this offers the option to “Add to News Feed”; however, these links seem to be non-functioning at present.
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Whitney
Hopefully Laura reads this again. In order to get my friends off their hidden status (I noticed that the links are completely gone now) I had to hide someone and then click the “Show Hidden Friends” that popped up in the window… as shown in this article. It’s the only way you can change the list right now.
Sooo frustrating.
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Mark Green
Has anyone figured out how to hide/unhide friends out of the Facebook BlackBerry App? I’m forced to unfriend folks that annoy me with updates, but I’d rather just hide them!
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Dany
Hey ,can anyone tell if his friends are hiding his news feeds?
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Kamran
Thank you very much. it works. lol
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VJ-ATL
Well, its pretty simple to unhide your friends. I finally figured it out. Go to the end of the news feed page. At the bottom right corner, you will see “options” menu which will pop up a screen showing all the feeds or friends that are hidden from your news feed. You may then select to “Add to news feed” button to add them back so that you can see their posts.
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sjunkie
damn.. i’m also looking for the option to hide a few (i’m lying a LOT) of overzealous updaters on my blackberry. I love em but damn it! its too much! stop with the updating!!! When will they fix this??!
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kbryce
I what to unhide the Farmville links on my facebook! Any ideas?? I hide it when I didn’t have time to have a farm but now have one and need to adopt 2 animals to get a ribbon but I need to do this through the entries! PLEASE HELP!
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Pat
I accidentally hid farmville feed & i want it back if you get answer please tell me! Thank you ever so much
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Jamey
I’m with Dany… I’d like to know if I’m being hidden… There has to be a patch for that. Hackers, how about a hand?
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Joel
I’d like to know if there is any way do discover if any of my friends are hiding me.
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Michele Scheideman
I am no longer able to see my neighbor’s farmville posts either. HELP!
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Madeeha
Hi.. m v worried tht my bf iz cheating on me haz been avoiding me & he haz smehow managed 2 appear offline 2 me on fb chat while he still remainz online 4 da rest of his friendz.. plz plz plz help me out n tel me if thr iz sme way tht i can find out if he iz appearing offline 2 me only….
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Madeeha
Thankyou Dustin 4 ur trying 2 help… but m pretty sure tht u can create certain friend lists n appear offline 2 thm only while appearing online 2 the rest of the frndz… PLz GUYZ N GALZ…. NEED HELP HERE!!! m sure thr must sme way of finding out… msn yahoo n gtawk all hv been covered m sure thr must b a hacker whu haz found out 4 fb also……… DESPERATELY HELP NEEDED!!!!!!
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Donna
My son travels with his job and used to mention his whereabouts on facebook almost daily . Also another son would post and 2 daughter-in-laws.. No I feel like it’s all hidden from me. Nothing new has shown up in weeks. Is there a way to view those hidden files w/o contacted them?
Dustin
4 Levels of Social Media Connections
I was chatting with Dale Chumbley about Facebook Pages and how we’re both using them to reach out to our respective communities when he touched on an interesting topic… He said about 1/3 of the folks who became “fans” of his page were not his “friends” yet on Facebook.
I’ve had a few conversations on this topic lately and I’ve boiled down the different types of social media relationships into the four most common types and given a bit of an explanation about the implicate meanings behind each type:
1) No connection. This one seems to be obvious… but there could be a number of reasons you don’t connect with folks. Most of the time it’s because you simply don’t know them, but maybe it’s because you don’t like them, don’t think they’ll add value to your network or, even worse, view them as spam.
2) Follow. This is the Twitter model and the connection is probably one of the “weakest” ones out there. You could have any number of reason to follow someone and it’s completely one-way. There’s no reason to expect that just because you follow someone that they’re going to follow you back, be interested in you, or even take time to learn anything about you.
3) Fan. This is the model used by Facebook Pages. While functionally it is identical to a “follow” connection (i.e. a one-way connection with no reverse interest implied whatsoever), there’s a value judgement implied when you become a fan of someone. Whereas it often only takes one interesting tweet to get me to “follow” someone, it takes a bit more before I’ll become a “fan” of someone.
4) Friend. This is the model used by Facebook Profiles, Digg and many other social networking sites… and clearly implies (and most likely requires) a two-way relationship. However, the term is so often abused (I’m just as guilty as anyone else of becoming “friends” with people I’ve never met and am likely never to meet) because I thought I might find some value to having them in my “network” in the long run.
Similar to Dale, a little over 1/3 (30 out of 85) of the people who have become “fans” of my Page are not “friends” with my personal Profile. This tells me that based on their actions, a fair number of folks feel more comfortable becoming “fans” than “friends” with someone they don’t know.
Almost all of these people are professionals I *would* have connected with on Facebook (via a “friendship”) in the past, but I’m so much happier to have them separated on my business page so I can begin to do a better job separating my work life from my personal life.
Also interesting is that from a marketing perspective these relationships imply different levels of business outreach. When someone becomes a “fan” of my business page that definitely implies an “opt in” to a certain level of marketing that is not necessarily part of being a “friend”… or even a “follower”.
If you’re ready to explore how different professionals are using Facebook Pages, start following (i.e. become a fan!) of these pages:
And while you’re exploring, you should probably also check out the page I created for my listing syndication tool.
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Patrick Healy
I agree with everything you wrote here. I pose a question though. All of this information and these relationships are virtual and all can (and often do) stem from one master database. Why not have the “become a fan” feature on your personal page that one can see a limited amount of information on as a visitor?
I segment everyone I encounter on FB into separate groups and use those groups to not only pull in content and check out their update/statuses/what have you but also use those groups to push content with permissioning (only certain people can see certain things) as well as invite folks to events, groups, etc).
If we are striving for adoption AND simplicity then it would make sense that you can do this all in once place for everyone on both sides of the equation.
With FB being a platform more so then a website it would lend itself to other media/networks taking advantage of this and lead to better capture of analytics all the while not pelting people with things they don’t want to see.
Thoughts?
Dustin
The trouble with Marc’s approach to Twitter
Like many real estate professionals who are using the internet to market themselves, Marc seems to be overlooking the fact that the best clients come from your friends… your real friends.
Most agents know this implicitly, but don’t necessarily make the connection to how they need to operate online.
For example…
A good friend of mine, who conveniently happens to be a real estate agent, hates internet leads. Doesn’t want to deal with them. For years (he actually attended one of my bloginars in July ‘06) , I’ve been telling him about the importance of SEO, “owning” his own domain, link structure, quality content, relevant traffic, etc, and while he humors me (he’s become a good friend after all), his heart has never been in it. As he likes to remind me, internet leads are crap and he just passes them off to others when he gets them anyway.
However, on a recent conversation, we were talking about where he’s getting his business and he mentioned Facebook (he’s very active on Facebook and MySpace having uploaded thousands of photos and shared countless stories). Says his friends on Facebook have been treating him well lately sending him great clients and he’d love to get more. But he doesn’t consider those “internet” leads since the clients typically come to him on a recommendation from a friend.
I think it’s worth reiterating. People who find him on the internet aren’t worth his time. People who get recommended to him from his Facebook friends help pay his bills.
So, now to bring this back to Marc’s post on twitter… Marc says:
“You can either post gibberish or you can choose instead to post content about what’s happening in your marketplace right now that does or could have consequences for your reader.”
I can guarantee that if my friend had spent the past two years limiting his online participation to writing content that had consequences for his marketplace, he’d not only have a small fraction of friends on the site, but Facebook would not be providing him any meaningful business. Worse, his most common “friend” would probably be other real estate professionals who accept this boring banter on social networks.
With that said, I’m a HUGE fan of agents creating a place where they can share their knowledge and expertise by creating content that has consequences for their marketplace… And my other website, Rain City Guide, does a great job generating business by creating this type of content (and I’d argue generates more business for our agents, mortgage brokers, title reps, lawyers, etc. than any other real estate blog).
But to compare the value of Twitter banter (or banter on Facebook or any other “social” network) to the content created on a site like Rain City Guide is to completely confuse the value of unknown internet clients with clients recommended to you by your friends.
If you don’t mind dealing with internet leads, then by all means focus on building out a website like Rain City Guide that will drive relevant traffic.
However, if you want your real friends to start sending you clients, then you better start interacting with them in a “real” way. Maybe that means throwing ridiculously cool parties, joining the local PTA, coaching a little league team, or sharing inside jokes and other gibberish on Twitter. Either way, your real friends expect you to be a real person.
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Bill Lublin
Dustin- You make a great point about the importance of establishing trust and relationships online before implementing real world services . We need to engage the consumer and make them part of our community (or become part of theirs) in a real way by connecting with them in the manner they need – not the manner we think they need.
Once we make that dual connection, we are not an internet presence and they are not an internet lead – we are friends who are prepared to do business with each other.
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teresa boardman
I have to say I agree with your friend. Internet leads are more work than they are worth. we do get business from people who know us. It is much better than the business that comes from random strangers. I have however been able to make some friends through my blog. Mostly neighbors that I did not know.
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Ginger
I have met far, far more people on twitter than I have met through my blog. Local people, in my area, that can and will refer business because I engaged them and we became friends. Most of them would not have ever been on my blog because they may not necessarily be in the market for real estate (right now), but now, when they hear their friends talking about real estate, they think of me. Maybe my tweets are “gibberish”. If so, fine. Apparently gibberish may work. It is all about connections.
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Marlow
This is exactly why I “waste” so much time on Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, email and my other blogs. Why I go to art openings, why I volunteer with my kids school, why I host parties and salons, sponsor craft sales, work on boards and fundraisers, build art cars, and help friends and neighbors to make our world a better place. It’s all about friendship and rapport, and this is how I stay connected. And when the time comes that they may need some real estate services, hopefully they’ll think of me.
Rory
Twitter is flat out awesome for getting your message across in a non-threatening way. I’m not always trying to cram sales figures at people. Instead I can talk about the weather, sports, fun local activities and people can get an idea of what living in Orange County is like. If that turns into business, then great. It might accidentally turn into business, which is the best kind.
Jim Reppond
While blogs and social networks do help me stay connected and visible in the marketplace, I tend to get a lot more prospective clients from my website where they can search for properties and find real estate specific information easily. I guess they each have a place and purpose. But I think of the social networks like Facebook and Twitter as more “chatty” and less “real estate focused”
Joseph Ferrara.sellsius
Whether blog or twitter or FB or even meetup.com (one of my favs), each is a different communication vehicle for us social beings to interact with each other and build relationships– they allow for a broader reach (if you want 2000 friends) but may be less emotionally deep — until they become f2f (or telelphone call) interactive. Heck, there is something about a smile that beats a lol or
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….. or maybe instrument is a better analogy. It’s in the way you play SM and, if you are adept enough, you can be a one man band.
Having said that, short term business ROI may not be greatest in social networks (cold/warm calling may yield higher returns) but the hope is the SM clients stick better and refer out better, making SM a long term play. BUt heck , I could be completely wrong. I built my client base in the old school, one handshake at a time.
dave in NYC
Maybe your friend is getting the wrong sort of internet leads. We’ve seen great conversions here in New York, and I know of many others who convert internet leads at a great rate. I wonder what sort of phrases his sites are showing up for?
Jay Valento - Long Beach real estate
We have developed a system to work with and building relationships with online consumers that register to search for homes and condos on our websites. 95% of our business comes from our websites. Working with the online consumer is different than a traditional consumer…you must adapt to each to succeed.
Recently, I changed our property search system from Park Place to Diverse Solution’s interactive map search…and the quality of the online consumer is higher…and everyone loves the map search product. I have been getting more phone calls from them during the past week. We are excited to see how the new product effects are business in 2009 and beyond.
John Harper
Half of our business is coming from the Internet. The biggest issue I see with agents is lack of effective follow up.
Dustin
John… I totally believe that half your biz is coming from the internet and that effective follow up is the missing piece for most agents. However, my experience has been that getting some agents, who are otherwise very successful, to do effective follow up with internet leads is often like trying to fit a square peg through a round hole.
In other words, keep up the great work!
Ben Roberts
Good local bloggers corner their online real estate market. Part of that is social networking with ‘friends’ online. Great post. More talk like this and maybe the general public will start to get the real gist of social media!
Melody Anderson
Relatively new to blogging, I’ve long considered how to focus my blog: whether to make it more informational, or conversational. I chose the later. I’m not sure if it will generate the most business or not, but it’s something I’m
much more apt to enjoy and maintain longterm.
Misty
I hope that you don’t mind, but I linked back to your post in my blog. To read it, click here: http://mistyfau.wordpress.com/2008/12/12/are-you-a-twitter/
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Misty Faucheux
Charles Richey
Real estate marketing has always been about relationships. Now you just have a lot more ways to interact with people.
Sherry Chris
We love social networking at Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate. Facebook, Twitter and our blog have become powerful tools to build brand awareness and establish a network of business “friends” Creating a balance between providing useful information, and engaging in friendly banter is key – just my opinion…
Dustin
Sherry: Your opinion obviously carries a lot of weight. Thanks for stopping by and sharing.
Furniture Cab
Found your post very informative. I am just now getting familiar with Twitter. I am in the moving business, and trying to establish relationships with people.
Marc Davison
Perhaps my message was not fully comprehended. Firstly, I covered Twitter back in 07 (http://www.1000wattblog.com/2007/06/what_are_you_do.html) with a considerable theme of excitement, long before most agents discovered it.
I get Twitter. I get the brilliance of using it to build relationships. And I firmly believe that using Twitter to distribute critical intelligence about yourself and your market is the key to its users success.
What’s in question is whether local market data is the meat on this particular bone, which appears in direct contrast with, agents desire to post activities to build and cultivate these relationships.
Here’s the thing – intelligence can be just as sexy, just as interesting and considerably as attractive as posting the simple things you, I and the rest of world do on a daily mundane basis.
And intelligence can be packaged all sorts of ways and made out to be interesting, fun, light-hearted and totally conversational.
Folks like Robert Scoble, Guy Kawasaki, Tony Hsieh, do it daily and they are the kings of Twitter. And just look at their success.
So I am with you guys in that I completely agree that Twitter works wonders within a sphere, cultivating friends and winning business. Where I disagree perhaps is simply the verbal, conversational bait placed on its line. I question how the posting things like I just parked my car, drinking a smoothie and wiping off my sweat at the gym (real posts that appeared on my account by those I used to follow) can really lead to business.
If any of my friends called me each time they blew a gum bubble, I think, for sanity sake, I would move out of town in the middle of the night.
To believe that broadcasting real estate info to real estate people on Twitter flies on the face of logic interests me considering just about every real estate conversation between agents at any conference begins with “So how’s your market”?
So here’s how I think this through. If I were an agent in Arizona where the market is dead and have a clientele of rich investors who I am trying to source good deals for, do I a) work a deal with agent A who Twitter about the prices in her town and the opportunities abound or Bob from Cleveland who Tweets about his bubble bath, his dog and the itch he just scratched?
If I’m not thinking clearly on this, please work with me. I am not an agent and often times attempt to apply my background, my business experience and my communication skills to a career I never had. There has been a healthy conversation going on at my blog as well on this topic, which is cool because I think social media is indeed an agents big, big opportunity in years to come.
My concern is that real estate is applying older, 1.0 style communication techniques to a 2.0 platform. You know, the agent who once posed with their dog now Tweets about it on Twitter.
At the end of the day, I am still placing my bets on following the practical applications used by the webs most prominent gurus who have cultivated tens of thousands of followers very successful businesses.
Geordie Romer
Marc-
I think the important word missing from your line of thinking is .. “and”
In your example you give us a choice about choosing the agent who Tweets about pricing versus the agent who tweets about his personal life.
If you are tweeting JUST about your personal life or JUST about pricing, you probably are going to be pretty boring to follow.
The key in my opinion is to Tweet about real estate AND personal activity.
My blog has a lot of info about market activity, but it also has my PERSONALITY and it has info about the fun recreational activities my town is famous for.
As far as social media gurus go – I know that Guy Kawasaki loves hockey and can’t skate backwards like he should. I know that Chris Brogan is honest and open and gets great pleasure buying toys for needy kids.
In my mind Brian Boero and Marc Davison are the same person. The 1000Watt Brand may be strong – but your personal brand is weak.
In real estate that would be horrible for building a business.
Kevin Tomlinson
We all have different opinions and they all work—. I cringe when I have to “work” with a friend. I end up trying to “protect” them and it’s too hard for me.
Further, I hate referrals because INEVITABLY they take me out of my MIami Beach/South Beach market. A person who extends the generosity of referring someone to you, on some level, gets offended when I don’t work with them.
I prefer TOTAL strangers.
Kevin Tomlinson
Is there gonna be a blog war on Christmas Eve?
Georgie vs Marc?
Could it be?
Dan Edwards
The truth about good sales/networking is it’s natural. Clients choose to do business with providers they know & trust. Twitter allows you to be yourself your friends will see through any “spamming of business” if you mix it up. Be real. Great post! The simple fact is use Twitter and enjoy, work hard and the business will come.
jfsellsius
The present day composer refuses to die. (Varese)
According to one of the Twitter kings (methinks they were wearing their robes before they arrived):
http://scobleizer.com/2008/12/22/did-i-harm-my-blog-by-friendfeeding-this-year/
Geordie Romer
Kevin-
I don’t do wars.
Peace, love, and best wishes on Christmas eve to all.
Geordie with a D.
Marc Davison
@Geordie,
Great insight my man. I agree completely with the “and”.
As for my lack building a personal brand – a few thoughts here.
I have, at times, offered insights into myself when appropriate. My readers know I’m married to my childhood sweetheart, know my son got his real estate license, know we were in Hawaii celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary and know that I’m an accomplished musician that occasionally performs with iconic artists.
I simply control how often I reference these things and try hard to execute it within the context of a beneficial post that carries with it some alternative value beyond being seen as a braggart.
I refrain from posting what I’m eating, what color boxers I choose to wear or what song I am listening too. Some things I choose to keep to myself.
Building personal brand is not part of my professional discipline. The 1000watt brand is based very much on the “us” experience (the combined knowledge, creativity and intellect) my partner and I collectively bring to the table. Combining some personal events can confuse clients in my line of work so I manage that side things best I can.
Your inability to distinguish between Brian and I is an interesting observation. One I am glad you thought to pose.
Has anyone else who has followed us felt the inability to distinguish between the two of us and if so, does it matter?
I wonder.
Mike Good, President and CEO of Sotheby’s International Realty comes to mind. We know very little about him personally, but publicly, he embodies the very essence of Sotheby’s. If Mike enjoyed rodeos, eating deep fried Twinkies and camping out overnight at K-mart for Black Friday, would posting about it help or hurt him? Granted, that me a part of him, but where, in the rules of Web 2.0 and transparency, does it say that you ought to reveal every single fiber of your being?
That’s my point Geordie. Building a personal brand is just as, if not more intense, than building a business brand.
I feel the principles and sensibilities of image building has been skimmed over in real estate and tied too loosely to instructors who don’t posses the academic pedigree to instruct correctly.
For the record, I believe building your personal image is critical to a Realtors brand. I believe that doing it right is both art and science. I strongly believe most agents attempting to do this on their own with no professional guidance will build an image that is all over the place, and ultimately confusing to their client base.
Two years ago, I judged a blog contest for ActiveRain. I wrote a very intense critique of Kevin Tomlinson based on my observation never having met him. My impression was that he was shallow, self-absorbed and disguised his lack of knowledge of the market behind sensational postings.
Then we spoke. And I learned about Kevin’s intensity. And his talent. And deep-seeded knowledge of his market. And I then questioned him at length about the path he chose to convey his brand which I, given the time I spent on his site, came away with a completely different opinion.
It would be cool if Kevin can chime in here and expand upon that illustrating what we talked about and if that had anything to do with how he appears today which is, IMO, a perfect combo that defines the “and” Geordie speaks of.
Victor Lund
Great conversation! And I agree that Marc is onto something.
I wonder if people should be focused on using the social web to communicate with people you know. It is probably better to speak and not slurr or SHOUT. Slurring and Shouting is an embarrassment that is not likely to promote stronger friendships or business contacts.
I guess that I connect with different people on Twitter than Facebook. Facebook is for people that I know – or at least have met in person, or hope to meet in person.
I think that if an agent is connected to a number of people on twitter, and they clearly put in their profile that they are REALTORS, then they can lend the agent bent to twitter conversations. But most of the time should be carrying on the conversation if you see something that it interesting.
If you know who you are publishing to, then you know what they are interested in – just don’t assume. Sharing what song you are listening to would only be relevant if you are being followed by people with shared musical tastes, right?
Twitter can also be a marketing tool. For me, it replaces email marketing and press releases. It is “micro blogging” and I typically use it to draw followers to our blog.
Anyway – Merry Christmas
Victor Lund
Just one other thing…..
I just read on twitter that a Loveland Man has the Number 1 selling software application on the iTunes store at .99
ifart!
I guess there is room on twitter and everywhere else for a little levity
Marc Davison
Building a personal brand no matter how you do it, no matter what medium you use, using the proper mechanics of good brand building is critical.
Just because the web has now provided tools to build brand through self publishing, posting, anything, anytime, won’t necessarily accomplish this. Your name might be more recognizable to more people but it won’t build your brand.
A brand has to be tied to something that people can anchor to.
Honda – Tied to mechanically sound engineering.
Apple – Tied to flawless design.
W Hotel – Tied to a wonderland hotel experience.
Zappos – Tied to relentless service.
UPS – Tied to prompt, dependable delivery.
Wav Group – Tied to helping real estate firms understand its market and its brand position within through research, analysis and published reports.
1000watt – Tied to helping brokerages and media companies navigating the complexities of web 2.0, branding and communication.
Proper branding means that everything these brands do should act as a touchpoint to their meaning. The better each touchpoint conveys their meaning, the better the brand.
What are you tied too? Do you know? And if you, are you managing each and every touchpoint which includes every post, comment, tweet, etc.
Real estate has been taught to blast the neighborhood with flyers, bus stop bench posters, shopping cart ads and template websites filled with forms and bio’s and Hobbs Herder glossy tri-folds showing agents as humans. And through it all, why do people get toungue tied trying to voice the difference between most agents?
Twittering the things you do is cool. Don’t stop. But I advice trying to tie to something that also supports what you stand for.
Earlier today, I Twittered about U2 and their upcoming release and the marketing techniques they are employing that I find brilliant and the tie ins I see for real estate. I feel that type of post support my brand, both personal and professional.
So here is an example for you guys.
Suppose your agent brand position is tied to – representing local real estate through up-to-date, instant market centric information, consultation and hyper local knowledge and service.
Which post supports that brand better?
a) Stuck in traffic, boring. Wish I could beam myself places.
b) Stuck in traffic sucking on a swizzle stick listening to Sweet Thing on the Country Music Channel.
c) Stuck in traffic and just learned a local developer was granted permission to build condo complex downtown. K’ching. Reaching out to clients right now.
If you could prudently, skillfully, apply your efforts into really building up a brand based on simple, proven brand formulas, imagine how much more successful you would be?
Over the holidays, write down a statement that defines your brand. Then look over the bulk of your past Twitters and see if what you’ve posted supports your definition of yourself. If it does, bang on. You are doing it right.
Some leeway is acceptable. But the more you pay heed to connecting these dots, the more your worth and value will be better communicated. You will see an increase in readership. And business.
I stake my career on this.
And, thanks much to Dustin for his original post and allowing us to educate each other here on his blog.
Marc
Justin Zimmerman
Hey Dave, I’ll join you here from your twitter post and add a big heaping shovel full of an even bigger question this whole conversation begs me to ask…
It’s a bit dangerous to post here.
I know this may shock you and the others who know me and think of me as “techguy” of sorts. But I’m probably be better categorized as more of a RE “pragmaticist” and “researcher” and after you read this you’ll probably call me a “antagonist” and “contrarian” AND possibly a “HERETIC”…
So the heaping question is, “what’s the yield?”
$$$/month, week, year?
This question may look innocuous, but by delving deeper, it will start to pull and challenge the roots of the RE tech community (sorry).
With a degree in Finance and a background in Economics, I know with all options being equal (efficient market theory), an investor will pick the vehicle with highest return with the shortest payback period.
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Replace the word “investor” with “REALTOR”, “vehicle” with “marketing strategies” and assume EMT (efficient market theory) means that the agent is fully aware of his/her options to choose what marketing will work the best.
Now the question is, who is making more money?
Blogger/Social Media Maven v. FSBO/Expired Listing Leader/Cold Call Cowboy?
After spending the last 13 months chest deep interviewing over 50 top coaches, speakers and agents in the world, I’ve found that every single case of “million dollar babies” and “super producers”, agents who make over $500,000 a year NET to the bottom line, do so on an almost pure blend of Active Prospecting using telephone and mail.
They are not substantively twittering or blogging with any real “conversation” intentions.
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TIME is the ultimate in limited resources and the only true fixed variable to measure success; leads/day, appointments/week, $$$/month, I’m throwing this next statement out as subject for debate and evolution…
What do you think is the optimum blend of time is spent generating business?
How is your day scheduled?
What tasks and actions are they comprised of?
Who is really rocking it with the SM? Define rocking it.
Has anyone tracked, tested, or case studied this before?
It would be very interesting to study the best of breeds from both camps and see who has more money at the end of the month, quarter, year.
From my own experience in launching an enrichment based educational web service to agents, at the end of the day, they want more money in their bank accounts, (give me ROI or give me my money back).
Kind of like “give me liberty or give me death”, but not as harsh.
A corollary thought, after learning what works best from each side take the “best of breeds” from each “skool of thought” and create a hybrid model of the modern real estate success. Could sound something like -The Ultimate System to Modern RE Dominance-
Well I hope I’ve made some good points, looking forward to feedback (no rotten tomatoes) and if you would like to share the numbers behind your yield, I’d love to interview you!
Warmly,
Justin Zimmerman
Geordie Romer
Bravo to Marc to staying engaged in this conversation!
I comment because I care.
I enjoy reading everything that you and Dustin bring to the table and I think this discussion has helped us all grow.
I look forward to the ongoing discussion of :
*Appropriate us of Twitter for business
*How use to Twitter to brand your self
* How to use Twitter to connect IRL
Marc Davison
Cool. Same here. I believe Twitter to be an uber powerful tool. But I also believe, that when it comes to doing anything publicly, tools like this, while powerful, can also be somewhat dangerous if done wrong. Is is so fool-hearty of me to think that taking charge of your own imaging and branding without a fundamental knowledge of this discipline is risky?
Dirk Johnson
Does anyone know of a step-by-step “guide” to using twitter for real estate most effectively?
Or do you have to grap tips and tricks here and there?
My point is, advising agents to embark on this without some kind of guidance is not very good advise?
Geordie Romer
http://www.mytechopinion.com/2008/11/organize-chaos-with-the-real-estate-tweet-plan.html
and
That should answer most of your questions.
Marc Davison
Exactly my point all along. It’s not as simple as just posting arbitrary shout outs of what you’re doing to friends. With all due respect to Dustin, that’s my trouble with his trouble to my approach. I believe this, like any powerful public medium, a strategy is required.
Marc Davison
There’s that but let’s not forget basic common sense. Post when you have something to offer that brings benefit to those following you and check periodically during the day.
Buenos Aires Neighborhoods
Thanks for the two links George, helps a lot to clarify some points that I had.
Susie Blackmon
Bleh re Facebook. I am on it, but to me it’s for finding old friends.
Twitter is my drug of choice. I’m known on Twitter for my passion for horses and Cowboys — which gave me the wake-up call that my lack of passion/respect for RE, per se, was obvious. Let ‘er buck baby. Twitter is a gold mine of knowledge.
Dustin
REBlogWorld Presentation: With a Little Help from my Friends
I spent the better part of today completing the first draft of my presentation for next week’s REBlogWorld in Las Vegas! (If you haven’t registered yet, it’s getting late, but there is still time to sign up: afflilate link.)
For my presentation I wanted to create something a bit more advanced than I usual cover, so I decided to focus on the lessons I’ve learned from running Rain City Guide over the past three and a half years, as well as give tips to real estate professionals on how they can run their own group sites. Truth is, I’ve seen so many people try to intimate Rain City Guide over the years, but almost all of them have failed to catch fire… and rarely am I surprised since so few people do it right.
I’m calling the presentation “With a Little Help from my Friends” for reasons that will be obvious to most and especially those that attend.
And now I want your help. I’ve been talking about the Rain City Guide for so long that I feel like I must be missing some obvious stuff and would love your feedback.
Are there any questions you have about how Rain City Guide works? Are there any group blog topics or etiquette that you’d like to see me cover? And, obviously, if you ask a great question, I’ll make sure to answer it in the comments so you can benefit even if you don’t make it out to Vegas.
Bonus head’s up to other speakers: The BlogWorld folks put up a wiki page for each speaker that seems to be ranking pretty well on many of your names. I’d highly recommend taking a few minutes to complete your page. Here’s mine, Dustin Luther at Blogworld, as an example.
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Mike Price
thanks for the tip Dustin, I’m looking forward to seeing you again. BTW, are you stilling doing the Roundtable thing?
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Ricardo Bueno
I’d be happy to weed through suggestions for Roundtable topics
Dustin
LinkedIn, because…
…my facebook addiction runs pretty deep (thanks mostly to so many of my family members joining up) and while I could easily set up another site similar to 4realz, I wouldn’t (easily) give up the freedom of having a personal blog. On LinkedIn the community is pretty weakly connected and really only good for finding another job.
(in response to this question from Todd, more responses under the interview category)
Dustin
A twitter twist
I thought the purpose of the “@” symbol helped direct the conversation. I didn’t realize it filtered who received the tweat.
Dustin
Anyone else convinced that no one really knows what a social networking site is?
New Lease on Life for Friendster?
Among social-networking sites, Hitwise said, MySpace accounted for 80 percent of all visits, well ahead of second-place Facebook, at 7.6 percent.
YouTube overtakes MySpace:
The video sharing site has taken a 3.9% share of global internet visits a day compared with 3.35% for MySpace, according to internet analysis company Alexa.
I definitely think of YouTube as a social networking site.






Chad Hallberg 9:15 am on February 12, 2010 Permalink |
Maybe this filter of better posts via crowdsourcing (for lack of a better word) on Google Reader will finally get me over the hump of really using GReader as much as I should. I’ve kept myself blissfully ignorant from so much of the noise because I could never quite figure out a way to really bust through the noise and distill things down to just the top stories.
Thanks for the mention, Dustin!
Dustin 11:03 am on February 12, 2010 Permalink |
Yeah… Even if someone just used that one feature of google reader, it would only take a few minutes a day and there’s always new and interesting articles in there.